Soulmates

I love the thought of soulmates. As a young girl, I thought a soulmate would only be the man I would fall in love with - who would "complete" me in some way. I'm thankful to know from my own experience that the definition of soulmate is much broader.

Today, I am thankful for my soulmates. The first is my mother. I feel a vibration in the air before she calls me. Somehow, I always know when it's her on the phone. She knows by a slight tone variation in my voice if I need to talk, or need support. She is my touchstone - if anything happens in my life - I have to talk to her about it.
The second two are my dear friends since 6th grade, Amber and Jackie. We can communicate with just a subtle look, (or a kick under a table), we understand each others struggles, failings, annoying characteristics, and love each other all the same.
The third is my husband. After 15 years together, we often know what the other is thinking, and find a sweet comfort in each other's presence, that only comes after highs and lows, challenges, tears, laughter, joy and pain.
The fourth is my son, Jack. Our souls were somehow cut from the same cloth. I understand the way he internalizes everything, I understand his empathetic nature, and we have a simple, effortless connection. The final is my daughter, Kate. Already, she senses if I feel physical or emotional pain, and nurtures me. She has a little kind heart that always responds to those in need.


The Webster definition of soulmate is:" A person who is perfectly suited to another in temperament or resembles another in attitudes or beliefs."

But this definition doesn't really do it for me.

To me, a soulmate is one with whom you feel an ease. You may not match in temperament, but with the person, you don't have to put on any fronts, you can be who you are - there is no pretentiousness. Your soul feels at home.

So, thank you to my soulmates. I feel so lucky to have found you and to be blessed by you.